Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Next Time Press the Button


What do you do when you’re alone in the wilderness and fifty yards from a black bear? Maybe you go the other direction, hide, or get out the pepper spray you brought because who doesn’t bring some type of deterrent for wild animals. If the first thing you do is start singing a Bryan Adams song, then you may be in trouble. Let me back up a bit.

I traveled to Whistler, B.C. and set off in search of Rainbow Lake on a trail that promised amazing views. After having written a letter detailing my whereabouts I close the car door, snap a picture at the trailhead, and head into the woods.

It’s funny, but my first concern had nothing to do with animals but with the fact that I have seen every episode of Criminal Minds. Bad things happen in the woods, so I prayed for invisibility from other hikers or at least the ones who would do me harm. Also, I prayed for a discerning spirit, a quick death if something were to happen, and a hoary marmot sighting. I then took time to mentally review the bear pamphlet I had read the night before.
  1. Stop-assess the situation.
  2. Remain calm-don’t approach.
  3. Stand your ground.
  4. Identify yourself in a calm voice. Sing a song.
  5. Make direct eye contact.
  6. Back away slowly.
At this point the bear should leave or you are hopefully able to detour around. If the bear approaches the pamphlet said, “Don’t panic! Your brain is your best defense in bear country.” It listed these hints.
  1. If talking in a calm tone isn’t working, say “no” as if speaking to a misbehaving dog.
  2. If you have spray, use it.
  3. If the bear pops his jaw to threaten you, bluff charge the bear.
  4. DO NOT PLAY DEAD.
I took time to decide what I would say to a bear. I rehearsed “HHello silly old bear. I don’t want to bother you.”

Three hours to Rainbow Lake wasn’t exactly the pace I was hoping for. The mammoth bugs that had followed me in swarms, the roots that had tried to trip me, and the mudflats that seemed to be missing more boards than not were all a distant memory when I reached the lake. I sat, enjoying the view.

The trek back was much easier and two miles out I could taste victory. The sweat, pains, and aches were worth it. I stopped to rest and when I looked down the trail I saw a black bear. Alive, only fifty yards in front of me, and moving jauntily down the hillside. All I could do was freeze; air slowly leaving my lungs. This was it. I was to die by bear attack. Jerking my head around I prayed for travelers, knowing I would find none. I edged my way to the trees as the bear stayed the trail. Without thinking I began singing Bryan Adams “Cuts like a Knife.”  I do have a soft spot for the Canadian rocker but was this to be my farewell song? My camera was around my neck but I knew if I pressed the button I risked the sound of the shutter making the bear angry. Instead, I watched the bear meander around the bend, out of sight.

Emerson said, “Life is a journey, not a destination.” Rainbow Lake was well-worth the hike but looking back it’s the picture of the suspension bridge where I had to talk myself through the crossing, it’s the picture of wildflowers where I was laying precariously on the mudflat, and it’s the missing photo of the bear, wishing I had pressed the button that make the story complete. Life, like that hike, is made up of moments and while we may not get to see the big picture, I think it’s worthwhile to press the button a little more along the way.

(c) 2013 Kari Skinner

Thursday, November 21, 2013

A MARRIAGE IN MIDDLEBURY | ENTER Anita Higman’s Double Kindle Fire Giveaway & RSVP for “Tea for Two” 12/12 Facebook Party!


Here is a book where you should settle in front of a cozy fire and just read. A Marriage in Middlebury by Anita Higman is a touching story filled with compassion, forgiveness, and tea. I love that tea is a central figure in this story. It’s unusual but helps create and define Charlotte’s character. There are many colorful characters in the story and Higman is careful to construct separate voices for each. The tale takes place in a quaint Texas town that is integral to the story itself.

For me this story was a surprise and a welcome read during a busy week. The humor, romance, and drama of this story will have you hanging on until the very end. 


I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.


Anita Higman is celebrating the release of her latest book, A Marriage in Middlebury, with a double Kindle Fire giveaway (one for you & one to give away!) and a "Tea for Two" Facebook Author Chat Party on December 12th.


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One winner will receive:
  • A Kindle Fire for you AND a friend
  • A Marriage in Middlebury by Anita Higman (one to keep and one to give away!)
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on December 12th. Winner will be announced at the "Tea for Two" Facebook Author Chat Party on December 12th. Invite your friends and connect with Anita for an evening of book chat, prizes, and an exclusive look at Anita's next book!

So grab your copy of A Marriage in Middlebury and join Anita on the evening of December 12th for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP today by clicking JOIN at the event page. Spread the word — tell your friends about the giveaway and party via FACEBOOK or TWITTER. Hope to see you on 12/12!

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Dear Mr. Knightley by Katherine Reay | Favorite Austen Moments KINDLE HDX Giveaway, Pinterest Contest and Facebook Party!


I’m glad I have a hard copy of this book. Dear Mr. Knightley is such an enchanting read. From the beginning I knew Sam was going to be a great character. Her insecurities mixed with her love of the classics makes for a tremendous voice that carries this novel.

Katherine Reay has written a fantastical first novel. Her characters have such strong voices and a real sense of who they are. They come alive and spring forth from the page with exuberance and vulnerability that can be difficult to put into words. Reay excels at this. Each character matters and has something to contribute to the story. At first I wasn’t sure how I liked the letter format of the story but after reading a few of them I was anxious to see how the story would unfold. And don’t be hesitant like I was. The letters work well, and let’s be honest, who doesn’t love a good letter.

 I too love a good romance but this book is much more than anther romance. Dear Mr. Knightley asks you to examine yourself, the things we keep hidden to protect ourselves, and bring it to light. Both the good and bad, scary and all. “The very first tear he made was so deep that I thought it had gone right into my heart. And when he began pulling the skin off, it hurt worse than anything I’ve ever felt. The only thing that made me able to bear it was just the pleasure of feeling the stuff peel off.”  


I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.



Debut author Katherine Reay is celebrating the release of her delightful novel, Dear Mr. Knightley, with a Kindle Fire HDX giveaway, a fun Favorite Austen Moments Pinterest contest, and an Austen-themed Facebook Party.
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  One winner will receive:
  • A Kindle Fire HDX
  • Dear Mr. Knightley by Katherine Reay
  • Handmade Austen-themed items (scarf, mug, bracelet, and necklace) 
Two ways to win! Enter today by clicking one of the icons below or participating in the Pinterest contest (see banner below)—or BOTH! 

But hurry, the giveaway ends on December 3rd. Winner will be announced at the "Dear Mr. Knightley" Austen-themed Facebook Author Chat Party on the 3rd. Join Katherine (and Austen fans) for an evening of book chat, prizes, and an exclusive look at Katherine's next book.

So grab your copy of  Dear Mr. Knightley and join Katherine on the evening of December 3rd for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP today by clicking JOIN at the event page. Spread the word—tell your friends about the giveaway and party via FACEBOOK, TWITTER, or PINTEREST. Hope to see you on the 3rd!


Sunday, November 17, 2013

: Robin Lee Hatcher | “Beloved” iPad Mini Giveaway!


The talented Robin Lee Hatcher has written a sweet, touching, and clever story. Beloved is simple and to the point, yet connects you so acutely to the world of the characters. This is a story of a man’s decision to love his wife despite their broken past. It’s a wonderful telling of forgiveness and redemption, showing us that love is not about taking but giving. If you enjoy historical romance then you will love this book. Start reading today!


I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.



Robin Lee Hatcher is celebrating the release of her latest novel, Belovedwith an iPad Mini giveaway! 
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  One winner will receive:
  • An iPad Mini
  • Beloved by Robin Lee Hatcher
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on November 15th. Winner will be announced November 16th at Robin's blog.

Don't miss a moment of the fun; enter today and be sure to stop by Robin's blog on the 16th to see if you won. (Or, better yet, subscribe to her blog and have the winner announcement delivered to your inbox!)!

Friday, November 15, 2013

TO KNOW YOU | Win a Personal Coaching Session with Shannon Ethridge and $100 to Lisa Leonard Designs!

My Review:


What a fantastically heartbreaking story!

From the first page to the very last page this book had my attention. To Know You lets us in on one family’s struggle with a serious health problem. Shannon Ethridge takes you on an emotional roller coaster ride as we follow the family on this journey of healing and redemption. To me, a major theme of this book is that no matter how painful the past is the Lord can redeem it. It may not be easy or go the way we anticipate but the circumstances bring Him the glory. 

Ethridge does a great job of helping the reader hold on in the tough times with bits of grace and hope. She also does a great job of inviting the reader into the story, including them in the good times and bad. Have a tissue handy but please don’t miss out on To Know You!

I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.


Shannon Ethridge is celebrating the release of  To Know You (co-written by Kathryn Mackel), by giving away a $100 gift certificate to Lisa Leonard Designs and a personal coaching session, as well as throwing a Facebook Author Chat Party!
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One winner will receive:
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on November 19th. Winner will be announced at the "To Know You" Facebook Author Chat Party on the 19th. Connect with Shannon and friends for an encouraging evening of fun chat, book club discussion, giveaways, and a chance to win a PERSONAL COACHING SESSION WITH SHANNON!

So grab your copy of To Know You and join Shannon on the evening of November 19th for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)
Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP today by clicking JOIN at the event page. Spread the word — tell your friends about the giveaway and party via FACEBOOK or TWITTER or Pinterest and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on 11/19!

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Double Kindle HDX Christmas Gift Pack from @TriciaGoyer!


My Review:
It’s November 1945 and winter is beginning to settle down around Amish country.  Our story follows Rose as she discovers her past and looks toward her future. Everything she is familiar with, her way of living, is called into question as the story unfolds. 
Christmas is an iconic time and the perfect setting for this tale of hope and love. The characters come alive through dialect, the town around them, and even the weather plays a part. Tricia Goyer has crafted a sweet, feel-good story that will have you hanging onto her every word and clutching a tissue at the same time. A Christmas Gift for Rose is well-written and warms the heart. 
Please pick up a copy of A Christmas Gift for Rose, you won’t regret it! 

I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.



Tricia Goyer is celebrating the release of her first Christmas novella, A Christmas Gift for Rosewith a Christmas Gift giveaway! 

Enter to win a NEW Kindle Fire HDX for you AND one for a friend!


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One grand prize winner will receive:
  • A brand new Kindle Fire HDX and one to give away to a friend!
  • A Christmas Gift for Rose, by Tricia Goyer for you and your friend!
Four second place winners will receive:
  • A Christmas Gift for Rose Christmas pack (includes a recipe card, bookmark, a signed book plate, discussion questions, and a Gathering & Giving handout!)
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on October 19th. All winners will be announced October 21st at Tricia's blog.

Don't miss a moment of the fun; enter today and be sure to visit Tricia's blog on the 21st to see if you won one of the great prizes! (Or better yet, subscribe to her blog and have the winner announcement delivered to your inbox!)

Friday, August 30, 2013

College Football Y'all


The world around me is gearing up for football season. Flags have been mounted on cars, high school buses are cutting me off in traffic en route to games, and ESPN has already predicted a champion and Heisman winner. It’s Friday night and I know that many guys are gearing up to run through some sort of banner (hopefully it’s spelled correctly) and the stands are already filling up. It’s an exciting time as fall is on the cusp and rivalries are heating up.

Football, football, and more football. From now until January that’s what the topic will be. I’m sure Facebook will abound with posts and trash talking that will cause friendships to be severed. Football is the thing that can bring out the best and worst in people and do so in one breath.

Since moving to Seattle I have not been to a college football game in two years, tomorrow begins three. I miss it. I miss the tailgating, the eagle flying, and the run-out videos. For me, those are the things that bring together the entire experience that is Auburn football. While I will miss being in Auburn and with that “family” I am excited to enjoy the season in Seattle. It looks different, instead of heading to Jordan-Hare I’ll go to Buckley’s Pub and watch the game with maybe 15 or so of my closest friends, not the 86,000 plus, I won’t have the awkward face and neck tan from having the sun on only one side, and I won’t have to spend money on concession-stand food. All in all it’s not bad, only different. Here’s to a new year, War Eagle!





Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Adventures in Canada


A week ago today I was hiking the Canadian wilderness. This is that story.

Hiking to Rainbow Lake

Rule #1 Never Hike Alone

I have heard this, read this, and seriously considered what this meant to me as I embarked upon my journey. You may think journey is a strong word, perhaps something that only hobbits can do. However, let me reassure you that journey is a perfect word.


Last week I traveled to Whistler, BC. It was my first holiday alone. Now alone may sound like a sad word, but rest assured I enjoyed my time alone. A time to recharge, explore a new city, and be in a foreign country (and yes, Canada is a foreign country).

Back to my journey. Before heading to Whistler I did some research on the hiking and found two trails that I wanted to try. I didn’t make it easy on myself either. I chose the most difficult trails in hopes of some of the best views.

Okay, so here’s the low-down on the first trail I would hike. It’s a 16km loop that takes around 5-6 hours and is rated the most difficult. It has an elevation gain of 850m, promises to keep your heart pumping, and deliver jaw-dropping views. Reviews also stated that this trail was well worn and marked, something that I needed. At 8:41 a.m. I exited my car after having written a letter detailing my whereabouts on the chance I didn’t return. A sobering thought as I closed the door. I snapped a picture at the trailhead and off I went.


I am directionally challenged. Knowing this about myself I knew I had to be on top it, lest I get lost in the Canadian wilderness. But about a mile in this fact was only reiterated as I somehow, in the beauty of all that surrounded me, veered off the main trail and found myself on a less-worn, cliff-hugging path. Not the best start. Still I kept walking and maneuvering over fallen trees, boulders, and roots. It wasn’t a bad mistake; I was able to see Rainbow Falls up close and eventually I made my way back to the main trail.

Trees are thick and the sound of moving water runs to my right. I could hear the birds and animals scurrying in the underbrush but all out of sight. The beginning of my journey brought about many conversations with myself and with God. It’s funny, but my first concern had nothing to do with animals but with the fact that I have seen every episode of Criminal Minds. Bad things can happen in the woods so I asked for invisibility from other hikers or at least the ones who would do me harm. I also asked for a quick death were something to happen (Melissa would have been proud of all the options I created for myself), a discerning spirit, and maybe a hoary marmot sighting. I also took the time to mentally review the bear pamphlet I had read the night before. I had grabbed it on a whim in the visitor centre just to be on the safe side. Having only ever encountered bears at the zoo with a nice barrier between us, I had no desire to see one while hiking on my own. And I’ve seen When Grizzlies Attack so I know not to be too hopeful if attacked, chances are I’d rather just die. Thankfully grizzlies don’t live in Whistler though, only black bears and from reading the pamphlet they seem a bit more docile. The tips for what to do if you encounter a black bear are as follows:
  1. Stop and access the situation.
  2. Remain calm and do not approach the bear.
  3. Stand your ground and face the bear.
  4. Identify yourself as human in a calm voice. Singing a song helps.
  5. Make direct eye contact and keep it.
  6. Back away slowly.
At this point the bear should leave or you are hopefully able to detour around it. However, if they bear approaches you the pamphlet said, “Don’t panic! Your brain is your best defence in bear country.” It also listed these helpful hints.
  1. If talking in a calm, respectful tone is not working, say “no” as if speaking to a misbehaving dog.
  2. If you have bear spray, use it.
  3. If the bear “pops” his jaw to threaten you lunge toward or “bluff charge” the bear.
  4. DO NOT PLAY DEAD.
This was the information I had to go on if I were to come across a black bear. I took this time to decide what I would say to a bear or what song I would sing. I rehearsed in my calmest tone “Well hello you silly old bear. I don’t want to bother you. See you later bear.” I couldn’t think of an appropriate song so I rehearsed different words. Then a panoramic view would steal my attention and bear talk was left for another time. 

We’ve established that I’m terrible with directions and on top of that I’m not the most observant person either. I’m the kid who asked Dad every time on the way to Auburn if this was the way we always went (for years I did this). Yet, on my journey I noticed the smallest detail. Everything; from the direction of footprints to animal noises or lack there of. Trail signs and animal poop were also present and did not escape my notice or my camera. I was proud of this, even if for half the trail I kept wondering if I was even on the right trail. My mind doesn’t work in terms of kilometers so I had to estimate and do my own conversion of kilometers to miles.

Somewhere along mile 3 (again, this is my best guesstimate), I encountered my first sign of life. Humans. A family of three, who did not raise an eyebrow in my direction. I was ready with a smile and warm hello but it was not to be. I was secretly happy because I was sure that my prayer had worked and that I was now traveling with invisibility cloak that would make Harry Potter proud. About a mile farther a girl comes running around the corner and bounding down the path. The strange thing was she was wearing jeans and a hoodie and holding her phone. But running. Running fast enough to make me wonder if I should be running as well. Had she seen Bigfoot? Does Bigfoot like to wander on well-worn trails with waterfalls and lakes? Alas, I kept walking.


Six hour hike, pshhh. I was surely going to make it in less. It felt like I was making good time, so I began daydreaming about all my extra time in Whistler Village. When hour 3 came around I began to lose hope of shattering Olympic records and just hoped to make it out of the woods before dark. Eight kilometers uphill will make for a long day, a hungry girl, and yet only half a journey completed.

But when I reached Rainbow Lake all was forgotten. The mammoth bugs that had followed me in swarms, the roots that had tried multiple times to trip me up, and even the man-made pier structures that seemed to be missing more boards than not were all a distant memory.

Rainbow Lake was beautiful. The bright blue water and breeze that wrapped around the lake and me like the arms of a friend were a welcome relief. Putting on my jacket, I sat and enjoyed the view. I had worked hard for this view. I’m not sure I knew how to really appreciate the lake and how I had journeyed to it. Sitting in solitude, having walked in solitude to this place of beauty, there is something so fantastical about sharing that with only yourself.


After taking the time to enjoy the scenery and rest my legs it was time for the journey back. I knew going back would hopefully be much quicker since it was mainly downhill, so I set off at a brisk pace in hopes of making up time. It is quite amazing when you realize that you are almost finished, well halfway at least. My pack became lighter, my steps quick and sure, and the bugs weren’t too much of a bother.

 I allowed myself an hour and a half to make the trip back. With the trail being 86% (a rough guesstimate) downhill I felt this was an attainable goal. I bounded down the trail, practically prancing over the tree-roots and rocks and sailing over the suspension bridge that, upon first crossing, had made me pause. The goal was all but mine. While traveling downhill is faster it is much harder on my knees. I felt everything and was thankful for the walking stick I had found on the way up. It surprised me how much of a difference it actually made.

About two miles out from the trailhead I could taste the victory. The sweat, pains, and aches were worth all of what I was about to accomplish. The tree coverage was thick and expansive again and the trail was now gravel as I approached a bend in the road. I stopped for a brief moment to rest my knees and when I looked down the trail what do you think I saw? A black bear! Alive, only 50 yards in front of me, and moving jauntily down the hillside onto my trail. All I could do was freeze, the air silently, slowly leaving my lungs perhaps for the last time. This was it. I was to die by bear attack. Jerking my head around I prayed for other travelers, but I knew I would find none. I edged my way closer to the trees as the bear kept moving down the trail. Should I identify myself as human? Do bears like to travel on well-worn paths like Bigfoot? These are the questions that surrounded me. Now, my camera was around my neck but I knew if I mashed that button I risked the sound of the shutter making the bear angry. Not worth it. With the bear moving away from me, I was happy and I didn’t see the need to change that. So I watched the bear meander around the bend and down the path while I stayed put for a good five minutes. Who knew, maybe the bear had bear friends or bear cubs not too far behind, and I wanted to avoid getting in between a bear reunion. Even in my fear and the uncertainty of the situation it was quite humbling to see a free bear. I must say black bears are cute, they walk kind of funny and seem like they could be sweet, but I’m happy with just making this observation. Had I needed to serenade my bear friend the song that came to mind was “Cuts Like a Knife” by Bryan Adams. Surely that would have driven the bear to flee, unless like me, the bear has a soft spot for the Canadian rocker. I guess I’ll never know. After giving the bear a head start, I picked up a rock and continued on very cautiously.

Those two miles were long and my hopes of getting to my car in record time were shot, but I was alive and all limbs were intact so I felt that was a good sign. As soon as I saw the trailhead I dropped my rock, once my precious weapon, and ran (probably more of a stumble really) out of the woods. Should I kiss the ground? Lie on my back basking in the sun? I chose the less dramatic route and instead took a survival photo by the trailhead. Loading my sweaty, dusty, and already sore body into my car I set off for Whistler Village. I needed Wifi to tell people I had survived my journey. 


P.S. Go to Canada any chance you get. It is a beautiful place.(See above photo.)

Thursday, June 13, 2013

A Heartbeat Away


           Book Info 
 
About A Heartbeat Away:

When a band of runaway slaves brings Union-loyal Beth Bumgartner a wounded Confederate soldier named Joe, it is the catalyst that pushes her to defy her pacifist parents and become a nurse during the Battle of Antietam.

Her mother's mysterious goodbye gift is filled with quilt blocks that bring comfort to Beth during the hard days and lonely nights, but as she sews each block, she realizes there is a hidden message of faith within the pattern that encourages and sustains her. Reunited with Joe, Beth learns his secret and puts the quilt's message to its greatest test---but can betrayal be forgiven?

Purchase a copy: http://ow.ly/liQMG

Meet Dionne:

Dionne Moore is a historical romance author who resides in South Central PA with her family, surrounded by the beautiful Cumberland Valley and lots of fun, historically rich locations. She is a weekly contributor to "The Borrowed Book", a blog for book-lovers and "Cozy Mystery Magazine", for all things cozy mystery.

Learn more about Dionne athttp://www.sdionnemoore.com


My Review:
The story in A Heartbeat Away is wrought with heartache but also redemption. As we walk the road of healing, both physical and emotional, with Joe and Beth we see the goodness and faithfulness of the Lord. The depth of the details that S. Dionne Moore has put into her story is exceptional. The history comes alive through her attention to the facts and her careful working of the past.  

Allow this book to sweep you away, into the time of canon fire and soldiers. Moore has written a deeply moving novel that comes together just as Beth pieces her quilt.

Check out the book trailer!

I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.



Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Lessons I Learned at the YMCA


I don't typically think in terms of analogies but occasionally my mind wanders in that direction. My work schedule is fairly consistent so it's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day routines and activities. But when God gives me a new perspective I try and take the time to find understanding and clarity. I look at it as a way to discern a deeper comprehension of God's character. 

On Fridays I take Logan swimming at the Y. We have been going for the past few months and his progress has been great. The first time we went he cried about everything. From changing in the locker room to having to go through the showers, Logan cried. Even as we were walking down the steps into the pool, he could do nothing but cling to me like a monkey, unsure about what was going to happen. Legs wrapped tightly around my waist and arms securely locked around my neck, we eased our way into the chilly 85 degree water. We made it all of 15 minutes before it was just too much to handle. No amount of motor boating would change his mind. We made our way back through the showers and changed clothes for the second time, readying ourselves for home. Even the dryer made him cry so I left with a wet-headed, screaming two year old. (You're welcome patrons of the Y.) 

I think it was all the unknowns that did him in; not knowing what to expect, being in a brand new environment, and not understanding the point of it all. Even me talking things over with him didn't offer much comfort. I love the parallels of relationships with children and our relationship with God. The symbolism in the teaching and discipline amazes me sometimes. Like Logan and the pool, I am with God. I can't see the end result, I'm thrown into a new or difficult situation, and I don't really understand what's expected of me...yet. (That's the kicker.)

The entire time Logan was in and around the pool, I was there. I made sure he had his life jacket, that we obeyed the rules of no running, and I was there for him to cling to. I never left his side. Just like God. As for Logan, I know why we go to the pool. I want him to be able to swim. I could even tell him all this, and I have, but he is not able to comprehend what that means exactly. I want him to be confident around water as a means to protect himself. For this to happen he has to trust me and be obedient to my instructions, knowing I have his best intentions in mind. (Insert mind blowing sound effects here.) Sometimes it's the simplest thought that lingers and leads me to deeper understanding. Wherever I am, whatever is going on in life God sees the end result. If He wanted to, He could tell me how my story ends but I would miss so much. It's in the details and trials of life that we learn and grow as a person and also learn and grow in our understanding of our Savior. 
  
As the weeks have gone by, Logan is now able to walk with more confidence and knowledge as he approaches the water. The locker room and shower have become the norm and he even jumps off the side, going underwater. It's been gradual and sometimes the trust wavers but he is learning to swim. The parallels in this story give me pause as I look at my own relationship with God. Sometimes I feel alone in circumstances yet I can know that He is right by my side. ("Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” Deut. 31:6) I can be confident in my Teacher and even when I find my trust wavering or my vision lacking because He has proven to be nothing but faithful I can be obedient and jump into the water knowing He's there. 

Friday, May 31, 2013

Win a Nook HD from Angela Hunt and RSVP for her June 5th Facebook Party!

Angela Hunt is celebrating the release of The Offering with a Nook HD Giveaway and an Author Chat Party on Facebook {6/5}.
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  One winner will receive:
  • A Nook HD
  • The Offering by Angela Hunt 
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on June 4th. Winner will be announced at the "The Offering" Facebook Author Chat Party on June 5th. Connect with Angela for an evening of book chat, trivia, laughter, and more! Angela will also share an exclusive look at her next book and give away books and other fun prizes throughout the evening.

So grab your copy of The Offering and join Angela on the evening of June 5th for a chance to 
connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP todayTell your friends via FACEBOOK or TWITTER and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on the 5th!

My Review: 

What can I say about this book?! The Offering is a heartbreaking, humbling tale of love inits most vulnerable state. So many questions arise in my mind once the last word has been read. Mandy is faced
with tragedy yet she is able to cope and see the beauty as she uncovers God's purpose. For me, this was not a story of full resolution but one where the reader has to somewhat wrestle with the decision made. 

Angela Hunt has a way with words and invites us into the Lisandra family as we travel this journey with them and the ebb and flow of emotions that accompany it. There are many themes within The Offering. Surrogacy, pregnancy, adoption, and family are just a few. This is a book that will tug heart strings and make you ask the difficult questions. The subject matter is deep and personal for a lot of people. I challenge you to look for the offering within your own life as you read through this book. You might be surprised by what The Lord brings to mind. Enjoy The Offering. 


I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.




Friday, May 17, 2013

Catch a Falling Star by Beth K. Vogt

Celebrate the release of Catch a Falling Star (Howard Books) with Beth K. Vogt by entering to win a Romantic Weekend Getaway and RSVPing for her June 4th Author Chat Party.


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  One "lucky" winner will receive:
  • A $200 Visa Cash Card (Perfect for a weekend stay at a hotel or B&B!)
  • Catch a Falling Star and Wish You Were Here by Beth Vogt (Swoon-worthy!)
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on June 3rd. Winner will be announced at the "Catch a Falling Star" Facebook Author Chat Party on June 4th. Connect with Beth for an evening of book chat, trivia, laughter, and more! Beth will also share an exclusive look at her next book and give away books and other fun prizes throughout the evening.

So grab your copy of Catch a Falling Star and join Beth on the evening of June 4th for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP todayTell your friends via FACEBOOK or TWITTER and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on the 4th!




My Review:

Waiting and trusting can be two very difficult things to do. We all have our own dreams and ideas of what life should be like and sometimes we take it upon ourselves to make things happen. Beth K. Vogt has written a story that dives into the depths of what it takes to let go and be vulnerable. To let life happen; not only with people but with God. 


The scenery and characters come alive under Vogt's willful hand as an author. Vogt lends an honest voice to the story's main characters and the frankness is not lost as we travel life with them. No matter your life stage I imagine there is something relatable for you in Catch a Falling Star


I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Once Upon a Prince @RachelHauck’s “Royal Wedding” Giveaway and Facebook Chat Party! {5/28}

My Review:

Everything about the description of this book intrigued me. A prince, a heartbroken girl, and a chance at happily ever after. Yes, please! This is a classic boy meets girl story but that is where the similarities end. Rachel Hauck has cleverly crafted a sweet story that will have you bounding from page to page to reach the end. This is more than just a story about love, it's also a story of seeking the Lord and the plans He has ordained for us. It is a story that we can all relate to in some way.

Hauck's characters are well-developed and their voices distinct. It is an interesting mix as the worlds from the South and overseas collide. Summer is on its way and this is a perfect book for some fun poolside reading.

I received a copy of the book for review purposes only. I was not compensated in any other way for this review. The opinions expressed here are my own.




Rachel Hauck is celebrating the release of Once Upon a Prince with a fun "Royal Wedding" Giveaway and connecting with readers at her May 28th Facebook Party.

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One "royal" winner will receive:
  • A Kindle Fire
  • Once Upon a Prince by Rachel Hauck
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 27th. Winner will be announced at the "Once Upon a Prince" Facebook Author Chat Party on May 28th. Connect with Rachel for an evening of book chat, wedding trivia, laughter, and more! Rachel will also be sharing a sneak peek at the next book in the series and giving away books and fun gift certificates throughout the evening.

So grab your copy of Once Upon a Prince and join Rachel on the evening of May 28th for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP todayTell your friends via FACEBOOK or TWITTER and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on the 28th!

History has a Way of Repeating Itself

Media . In a time when direct consumer contact is ever critical, Litfuse has become a key partner for Bethany House. They truly understand how to make some noise, and we are listening! — Debra Larsen, Fiction Marketing Manager in http://BethanyHouse.com . Twitter: Litfuse You can write a mean novel, but a 140-character tweets scares you. Take a look at this article: http://t.co/PYODoaQgO1 @SuzyQn @ACFWtweets about 12 minutes ago from HootSuite ReplyRetweetFavorite Litfuse Group Weekly is out! http://t.co/3Fm3bMtKFd ▸ Top stories today via @guideposts_org @MORFMag @jonslewis about 2 hours ago from Paper.li ReplyRetweetFavorite Multitasking is a great skill, right? Not according to this book, which we've reviewed on our blog today: http://t.co/e826bJLctf #amreading about 3 hours ago from HootSuite ReplyRetweetFavorite . Search our Site . DAY 6 – History Has a Way of Repeating Itself by Tricia Goyer May 4th, 2013 Code: Pearl Girls McSweeneyWelcome to Pearl Girls™ Mother of Pearl Mother’s Day blog series—a nine-day celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today’s best writers (Tricia Goyer, Lisa Takeuchi Cullen, Beth Vogt, Lesli Westfall, and more). I hope you’ll join us each day for another unique perspective on Mother’s Day.

AND . . . do enter the contest for a chance to win a beautiful handcrafted pearl necklace and a JOYN India bag. Enter at the bottom of this post. The contest runs 5/4-5/13, and the winner will be announced on 5/14. Contest is only open to U.S. residents.

If you are unfamiliar with Pearl Girls™, please visit www.pearlgirls.info, subscribe to our blog, and see what we’re all about. In short, we exist to support the work of charities that help women and children in the US and around the globe. Consider purchasing a copy of Mother of Pearl: Luminous Lessons and Iridescent Faith to help support Pearl Girls™.

And to all you MOMS out there, Happy Mother’s Day!
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History has a Way of Repeating Itself by Tricia Goyer

Forty years ago a single, young woman was about to give birth. She didn’t know how she could afford a child without her parents’ help. She hadn’t talked to her former boyfriend in months. She had no idea how to reach him, how to tell him she was having his child.

This young woman attended church some, yet her dialogue with God was stilted. How could God let this happen to her? What would her life be like now? A baby girl was born, and upon holding her child this young lady knew things would be okay. Perhaps this baby was a gift, not a burden as she supposed.

This woman raised her daughter the best she could, and while she wanted to give her child more than she had . . . history has a way of repeating itself. When the daughter became a young woman, she found herself in the same situation—living at home, pregnant and scared.

The daughter knew she could raise this child. After all, her mom had done it. But what would her life be like? How could God let this happen to her? If you haven’t guessed already. I was the daughter born to a single mom and as a teenager became a single mom myself. At age 17, God gave me a son. My boyfriend was out of the picture, and I faced raising a child alone with little education, no money and, maybe according to the world, little hope for my future.

Now if you take this story at face value, I am nothing more than a statistic. According to government research, most daughters of young mothers will be teen mothers themselves. They face lives of hardship, living on welfare for the most part — becoming a burden rather than an asset to society.
 
Yet, I am not a statistic. Why? Because God doesn’t do them.
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As a 17-year-old pregnant teenager I prayed a simple prayer, “God, I have messed up my life big time. If you can do anything with it, please do.” I dedicated my life and my heart to him and things changed. I had hope in my heart and I started walking God’s way. God brought an amazing, Christian man into my life. John was a wonderful husband and a father to my son. When had a daughter and another one on the way, God did something else unexpected. He gave me the desire to write books.

This Mother’s Day, my heart is filled with thanksgiving. I’m thankful for my mother who chose life for me. I’m thankful that when I questioned my future, God gave me hope.
 
History has a way of repeating itself in families, but even more important that our history of mess-ups is God’s history of setting things right. God has a history of seeing something no one else does . . . like seeing a king in a shepherd boy named David, seeing an apostle in a young zealot named Paul, and seeing a mighty warrior in a frightened nobody named Gideon. God’s X-ray eyes see right through any outward characteristics or national statistics. His X-ray eyes scan down to the heart.

Where have you felt you’ve fallen short of God’s perfect plan? Trust that God’s dream is to turn a mess-up into a miracle. He’s a BIG God with BIG dreams. A God who has made an agreement with us that is eternal, final, and sealed. A God who is strong in our weakness. A God who sees the future, sees the past and has a perfect plan for me . . . and for you. It’s something we can all be thankful for.
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Tricia Goyer is a busy mom of six, grandmother of two, and wife to John. Somewhere around the hustle and bustle of family life, she manages to find the time to write fictional tales delighting and entertaining readers and non-fiction titles offering encouragement and hope. Tricia is also on the blogging team at MomLifeToday.comTheBetterMom.com and other homeschooling and Christian sites. In addition to her roles as mom, wife and author, Tricia volunteers around her community and mentors teen moms. Tricia, along with a group of friends, recently launched www.NotQuiteAmishLiving.com, sharing ideas about simplifying life. She also hosts the weekly radio podcast, Living Inspired. Learn more about Tricia at www.triciagoyer.com.

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Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Mizpah

Pearl Girls McSweeneyWelcome to Pearl Girls™ Mother of Pearl Mother’s Day blog series—a nine-day celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today’s best writers (Tricia Goyer, Lisa Takeuchi Cullen, Beth Vogt, Lesli Westfall, and more). I hope you’ll join us each day for another unique perspective on Mother’s Day.

AND . . . do enter the contest for a chance to win a beautiful handcrafted pearl necklace and a JOYN India bag. Enter at the bottom of this post. The contest runs 5/4-5/13, and the winner will be announced on 5/14. Contest is only open to U.S. residents. If you are unfamiliar with Pearl Girls™, please visit www.pearlgirls.info, subscribe to our blog, and see what we’re all about. In short, we exist to support the work of charities that help women and children in the US and around the globe. Consider purchasing a copy of Mother of Pearl: Luminous Lessons and Iridescent Faith to help support Pearl Girls™.

And to all you MOMS out there, Happy Mother’s Day!
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Mizpah by Margaret McSweeney

On April 14, our family’s precious Pongo passed away. This beloved Chihuahua was with our family for nearly fourteen years. He played with my daughters during their childhood and comforted them during the challenges of adolescence. He rested by my side during breast cancer treatment and worked alongside Dave in his home office.

Yes, Pongo was always a source of surprises. Before he was one, he somehow swallowed a brownie patch attached to a string of beads and a safety pin. That was his first stomach surgery. Then, the following year he bit off the sharp edge of Mr. Potato Head’s ear. That was the second stomach surgery. Throughout the fourteen years, we were in and out of the ER for dogs. He ate a bag of cough drops in the pantry. He jumped on the table and ate the kids’ chewable vitamins. And the list goes on. . . .

House guests would always have to place their purses on a table without chairs. Otherwise, Pongo would rummage through the bags in search of his addiction: chewing gum! But above all, Pongo’s greatest gift and lesson to us was unconditional love. Yes, Pongo brought such joy to the family for so many years. No one could believe that he actually smiled! He knew how loved he was. I think that is why he outlived his life expectancy by three years after being diagnosed with a heart condition. It was his kidneys and stomach cancer that ultimately claimed his precious life. He passed away peacefully in his sleep at home.
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The day after Pongo died, I read a beautiful Bible verse: Genesis 31:49

And Mizpah; for he said, The Lord watch between me and thee, when we are absent one from another.

Isn’t that beautiful! Mizpah signifies an emotional bond between people who are separated by death or circumstance.

Perhaps, instead we can say:“Mizpaw” to express this same emotional bond between people and their precious pets. Pongo, I love you and miss you so very much. Thank you for being a blessing in our home. You have left a “fur-ever” heartprint in our lives. Mizpaw!

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Margaret lives with her husband and two daughters in a Chicago suburb. She is the author of Aftermath: Growing in Grace Through Grief, Mother of Pearl, Pearl GirlsA Mother's Heart Knows  and the co-author of Go Back and Be Happy. She is the founder and collaborator of Pearl Girls. All the proceeds of books sales from Mother of Pearl (2012) and Pearl Girls (2009) to go support the work of two charities, WINGS AND HANDS OF HOPE. Margaret would love to meet you too. Follow her on twitter (@McSweeney) or friend her on facebook. You can also keep up with Margaret at Kitchen Chat, her weekly radio show.Visit her website.   a Rafflecopter giveaway